Cheap or No Cost Dates
77 Ideas for Everyone!
- Sketch your dream-house floor plan and talk about the possibilities of each room.
- Write the story of how you met. Get it printed and bound.
- List your spouse’s best qualities in alphabetic order.
- Tour a museum or art gallery
- Purchase a $1.00 lotto ticket and set around and talk about what you’d do if you won.
- Take a stroll around the block and hold hands.
- Back rubs are always good.
- Rent a classic love story video, microwave some popcorn and watch the video while cuddling.
- Build a fire in the fireplace or fireplace DVD, turn out the lights, cuddle and talk.
- Go swimming in the middle of the night.
- Write a poem for your spouse, something they’ll keep forever.
- Remember to look in your spouse’s eyes as he/she tells you about the day.
- Walk the mall together with the goal of not to buy, but to test perfume and cologne along the way.
- Hug your spouse from behind and give him/her a kiss on the back of the neck.
- Stop in the middle of your busy day and talk to your spouse for 15 minutes.
- Take a free tour of a local factory.
- Do something your spouse loves to do, even though it doesn’t interest you personally.
- Send your spouse a love letter through snail mail.
- Both take a sick day during the week and play “skip school day”…hide out as if you may get caught.
- Watch a sunrise or sunset together.
- Get dressed and go out for coffee and donut after dinner
- Sit on the same side of a restaurant booth.
- Picnic by a pond, lake, or ocean.
- Give your mate a foot massage.
- Put together a puzzle on a rainy evening.
- On a hot summer day, wash the car together, with the intent of splashing each other with water.
- Plant a tree together in honor of your marriage.
- Work on a Scrapbook together
- Whisper something romantic to your spouse in a crowded room.
- Leave a note for your spouse about a “remember when” moment; try to recreate the scene at home.
- Have a candlelight picnic in the back yard.
- Perfume the bed sheets.
- Serve breakfast in bed.
- Reminisce through old photo albums
- Share a homemade milkshake with two straws.
- Go on a photo shoot with your spouse, taking photos of them
- Take the TV outside and do a drive in with nachos/popcorn.
- Watch local for local or high school plays and get dressed up and go
- Buy a kiddies pool and go for a poor man’s swim/hot tub
- Dedicate a song to him/her over the radio.
- Make your spouse a favorite love song CD
- On your anniversary, renew your wedding vows with family and friends.
- Have a hot bubble bath ready for him/her at the end of a long day.
- Tenderly touch your spouse as you pass one another around the house.
- Reminisce about your first date.
- Build a little fire in the grill and make smores and have a thermos full of hot chocolate or coffee.
- Attend a sporting event you’ve never been to together. (a lot of local high school events)
- Create your own special holiday – May 3 for me.
- By a special blend of coffee/tea and wake your spouse up real early to watch the sunrise.
- Go fishing with some cane poles just to talk
- Make a photo map (photos of the route) for your spouse or someplace, with a picture of a clock set to the time, and be there with a picnic basket / bottle of wine.
- After everyone else goes to bed go outside and share a packet of hostess cupcakes.
- Go for a walk in the rain with your spouse.
- Go to a cemetery at night on a ghost hunt
- Order some Chinese and feed each other with chop sticks.
- Serenade her from an open outside window.
- Get a blanket and lay on the ground looking at the stars
- Make a table garden together (typically $10.00)
- Watch the newspaper for free events happening locally. They have car shows, concerts, bike nights, etc.
- Go to a flea market and have a set price ($10.00) to perchance the other the nicest gift you can find
- Watch local theaters for $2.00 movie night. Typically there older releases and are offered during the week.
- Make a slide show with digital photos and play some relaxing music and reminisce
- Have a NO TV night… play board games, cards, or dance around the house
- Go to library or bookstore and pick up logic game / riddles book.
- Take a hometown tour. Many Chambers of Commerce have walking tours or tape-guided car tours.
- Visit the fanciest hotel in your area. Tour its public places; enjoy the harpist in the lobby. Soak up the ambiance.
- Take a “Magical Mystery Tour.” All you need is a car and a coin. Each time you come to an intersection, flip the coin. Heads, you turn right; tails, you turn left. See where you end up. See if you can find your way back.
- Go parking. Drive to a scenic overlook and enjoy the view from inside your car (in cold or rainy weather) or outside (in warmer weather). Take along some refreshments or some romantic music, and make a night of it.
- Go out for ice cream. Just get a single dip cone and set there and talk
- Go to public library and check out a copy of a civil war journal and read to each other the entries.
- Photo contest. Each person gets to take 10 photos. Print or load on a computer and view what attracted the other person
- Together go out in a busy part of town and photograph strangers. Ask permission of course.
- Create a blog together…
- Go to dinner at McDonalds and order a single meal and share, then go to Burger King and do the same thing.
- We bought a “Mr. Bill” figurine about 5 ½ inches tall and take him around and do photos with him.
- Take a flashlight and go on a night walk through the woods. Everything changes at night!
- Go Camping, just a tent, sleeping bag, light, and your dinner.
Maybe not for some but we’ve rode around the night before garbage day a tried to see which one could spot the best treasure. We’ve actually found some pretty cool things!